I'm almost 21 and I'm too scared to drive?

There I said. This almost 21 year old guy's afraid to drive. It's so embarrassing. I've never even had a permit. My family is getting really angry at me and even threatened forcibly taking me to the driver's license place to take the permit test. I can't understand why they are so mean to me

There I said. This almost 21 year old guy's afraid to drive. It's so embarrassing. I've never even had a permit. My family is getting really angry at me and even threatened forcibly taking me to the driver's license place to take the permit test. I can't understand why they are so mean to me over it. I know I'm a big baby so what. I can't take the danger or responsibility. What should I do and why are they so mean? Thanks.

Best Answer:

Scott H: You sound more like a 5 year old. They aren't "being mean" to you, you're a grown man and they are probably tired of hauling you around. Grow up.

Other answer:

Scott H:
Well do they take you every where you need to go? If so, then I understand why they are getting upset. You're not a kid anymore. I'm sure your parents have things to do, like a job, groceries, etc and they can't take you wherever you need to go all the time.

You're 21. You can make your own decisions. If you don't want to drive, that's your decision. But it's not really a good idea to rely on your family for transportation all the time.

Mindy Sue:
They're mean because you're burdening them to drive you around everywhere and they don't want to do it. Whether or not you're afraid of taking the responsibility to take care of yourself, you need to.
Cherry:
It's reasonable. Everybody is scared. Don't let them control you. Say that im grown and can do whatever I want. If you don't feel ready you dont.
Anonymous:
I bet someone is getting tired of having to drive you around.

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